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'Alone' should not be confused with 'Loneliness.' In our daily lives, we should all take time to be alone for a bit.

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Relationships are the most crucial aspect of our life, and they can only thrive if they are filled with love and understanding. To make a relationship work, people are supposed to love and understand each other. So here's a question for all of you: Do you love yourself? Do you know what you're talking about? First and first, we must have whatever we are offering to others. As it is necessary to spend time with others in order to strengthen a relationship with them, we should begin spending time with ourselves in order to strengthen our relationship with ourselves. The most important component of life is taking time out for oneself on a daily basis and being alone for a bit. You, too, are entitled to your time. A lot of things can happen when you're alone. After a long day, you may feel incredibly calm, or you may have thoughts or a mental buzz. When you're alone, talk about everything that's on your mind. This is the initial step in the process of self-awarene...

What does it mean to me to be free?

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  Let me reword that first sentence. To me, what does air imply? What is the significance of eating in my life? What does it mean to me to be happy? They've all given the same response. It means the world to me. You might as well ask me what I would do if I were you, because the only way to leave without freedom is to wait for death and hope that it is gentler than slavery. I can't put into words exactly what it means to me, but I know I'd never trade it for all the money in the world. What does it mean to me to be free? Let me reword that first sentence. To me, what does air imply? What is the significance of eating in my life? What does it mean to me to be happy? They've all given the same response. It means the world to me. You might as well ask me what I would do if I were you, because the only way to leave without freedom is to wait for death and hope that it is gentler than slavery. I can't put into words exactly what it means to me, but I know I'd nev...

The Fear | Do you suffer from apprehension as well?

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  The threat of danger, suffering, or injury triggers the unpleasant sensation of fear. Or Fear is defined as an apprehension of (someone or something) being dangerous, painful, or hurtful. Fear is one of the most common emotions felt by people all around the world. The threat of physical, emotional, or psychic harm, real or imagined, triggers fear. Fear, despite its reputation as a negative feeling, plays a crucial function in keeping us safe by mobilising us to deal with possible danger. A small amount of fear is normal. Fear, in fact, aids our instinctual protection against damage. Our dread may assist us in recognising when we are about to do something risky and making a safer decision. However, we may be afraid of something that aren't genuinely harmful, such as giving a public address or giving a stage speech. We may be unable to advance in our careers or participate in customary gatherings and functions due to our phobia of public speaking. If we truly want to go...

What to Do If You Don't Feel Like You're Good Enough

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  se to make yourself feel more valuable. At times, we all feel unworthy. It is a part of our lives that is filled with ambiguity. We use the phrase insecurity to describe those who have doubts about themselves, which we are all guilty of. Insecurity has the advantage of forcing you to work harder on your connection and appreciate the people in your life. However, too much insecurity can wreak havoc on your relationship and undermine your self-esteem. It has the ability to hold you back in every aspect of your life. The great news is that insecurities can be overcome. No matter how large or tiny they are, you can always beat them 100 percent of the time. To do so, all you need is some self-work and a game plan. So, if you or someone you know is uneasy about themselves, here are some measures to help them regain their confidence quickly. Don't take whatever you see on social media at face value. As a confident person, the first thing you should remember is that what ...

Please tell me why I should trust you, mirro

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  An open message to my life's mirrors "Because I don't exist, only the thousands of mirrors that reflect me do. With each new acquaintance, the number of phantoms that look like me grows. They dwell someplace, and they proliferate somewhere. I don't exist by myself." - Nabokov, Vladimir Some days, I'm not sure what occurred between us. When you projected a mirror of myself and the only thing that mattered was the brilliant grin I could see, I used to yearn for you. It used to be how I defined myself. When I was in dancing class, I used to search for you because you were the one who would soothe my need for excellence, my want to improve at something I adored. To comply with my teacher's directions, I would perceive the necessity to change my movement and leg placement in you. When I look at you, I see a dancer. I'd see a girl who was enamoured with what her body could accomplish when I looked at you. Even yet, I'm still curious about what tr...

Tinder is how I met my partner, and I'm not ashamed of it.

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  'Wow, you're bold to reveal you and your boyfriend met on Tinder,' someone recently told me. Brave? Not at all. I don't believe there's something remarkable or daring about stating the truth that makes my connection any less legitimate or real - or at least shouldn't. However, it appears that there is for certain people. Because there appears to be a stigma attached to using dating apps and meeting people online, this is the case. And other couples are adamant about not admitting that's how they met their partner. But I'm not embarrassed or ashamed to admit that we would have never met if it weren't for Tinder's tiny elves. And I believe that dating apps are a fantastic innovation when used responsibly and with good intentions. So, what exactly is the source of this stigma? Is it true that Tinder relationships are equally as'real' as those formed outside of the internet? Online dating has existed for quite some time. ...

Make Yourself a Hero

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I've been thinking about the concept of "Be Your Own Hero." We were given fairy tales in the Western world, and maybe in your area of the globe, in which a 'hero' came along and saved the pretty girl who was in peril, whether it was a dragon, wicked stepmother, witch, sorcerer, hungry king, or anything. As young female youngsters, this ingrained in us the belief that we required an outside influence to save us from anything life threw at us that we couldn't control. We were never taught as children that we had our own unique power to employ in conquering the challenges that life threw at us. We never imagined we'd be able to stand up against anyone or whatever sought to damage us, kidnap us, mistreat us, or sell us into slavery of some sort (work or marriage not of our choice). In the viewpoint of our culture, we were merely female children with no worth. We were taught how to act and what would happen if we didn't obey our society's rules. We ...